Fifty Shades of Grey: Spicing up the Sex Lives of Readers Everywhere with “Kinky Fuckery.”

Over the last two weeks, I began to read the highly publicized novel ” target=”_blank”>problematic , but all I could think about when I finished reading Fifty Shades was how freely sex is discussed in such detail;  it’s so much more than “the sum of the structural, functional, and behavioral characteristics of organisms that are involved in reproduction marked by the union of gametes and that distinguish males and females,” or “sexually motivated phenomena or behavior,” as defined in the ” target=”_blank”>critiquing Fifty Shades, I want to focus my energy on how the novel promotes alternative sexual experiences and opens up the public to have a platform for speaking about eroticism and the world of Bondage Discipline/ Dominance, submission/sadism, and masochism ” target=”_blank”>Harlequin Romance novel, but once I got into the meat of the novel, that is, the “kinky fuckery,” I could definitely see why this book had become such an overnight sensation. The amount of sex throughout the book is only rivaled by Anastasia Steele’s own deeply emotional and conflicted descriptions of each new sexual experience as she discovers her identity as a submissive. Whips, floggers, handcuffs, heightened sensitivity; as I read I could feel the intensity. For many, the book served as an introduction to BDSM, not only giving the readers a look into this alternative lifestyle and type of intimacy, but actually enabling readers to place themselves, either literally or imaginatively, into “the scene.” (Members of the kink community refer to their active participation as being in “the scene.”) Much of the sex in the book is just “vanilla,” that is, it doesn’t even involve restraints, or pain, or any other aspects of kink. But it’s the passion, freedom, and sexual liberation displayed throughout the book that plays into the readers curiosity and day dreams, making Ana Steele and Christian Grey household names.

By page seven of the book I met the ridiculously rich Christian Grey and from then on I was launched into the intense sexual escapades of its main characters at least every 10 pages. Each chapter provides something new in terms of sexual play. It gives the reader the ability to imagine themselves as Ana Steele, that’s why it has so many people captivated. It also makes the readers really take a look at their sexual desires, opening up windows for sexual exploration, acknowledgement of hard and soft limits, and ceasing to oppress desires that are otherwise stigmatized in our society.
It isn’t a coincidence that Fifty Shades became such a success among married moms and older women first. I believe this phenomenon is because people relish in the ability to day dream, talk about, read about, and fantasize about sexual experiences that may be closer or polar opposites of their own. This novel doesn’t just provide good descriptions of sex between two dreamlike figures, but allows the reader to be able to open up their minds and finally put alternative forms of sexual pleasure in the forefront.

Christian Grey, Ana’s self-described “Fifty Shades of Fucked Up” love interest is controlling, troubled, and some would say shallow. What makes him the Christian Grey that can make anyone swoon is his familiarity with BDSM practices, his impressive skills as a Dominant. The attention the BDSM lifestyle has received from the book hasn’t been overly negative but rather cautiously curious. Most people are wary of what they don’t know, but very curious to be informed.

What I think makes this book worth looking into is the capacity to captivate its readers so much that these