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Caitlyn

Age: 20

School: Auburn University

Major: Political Science

Hometown: Hoschton, GA

Favorite writer: I can’t narrow it down to just one when I’m asked this, so I always give two answers, my current favorite and my all-time favorite. Current favorite: Nancy Scheper-Hughes. All-time favorite: JK Rowling

Favorite sex scene from a movie/TV/book: It’s not a sex scene, it’s a potential after-sex scene, and it’s from The X-Files, when Scully gets dressed and leaves and the audience sees Mulder in bed because I waited seven seasons for confirmation that yes, there was something going on.

Hidden talent: I can get out of handcuffs. I can get my hands from a locked position behind my back over my head and in front of me by twisting my elbows and shoulders just right (although it’s not good for my shoulder) and from there I can wriggle my wrists and hands until I’m free.

Posts By: Caitlyn Martin

The Little-Known Problem of Chemical Pregnancies

She came up to me before class on a Tuesday afternoon with tears in her eyes. “Can I talk to you about something?” she asked quietly. I was taken aback; this was a girl I had only met a couple months earlier in the very classroom we were waiting outside of, who I spoke to twice a week, and whose last name I didn’t know, yet I was the person she chose to turn to during a time of crisis. She was clearly upset, so I nodded, and she said those two words that can be spoken with great joy or harrowing fear: “I’m pregnant.” My natural, knee-jerk reaction was to gasp. And then I asked the typical and insensitive question: “Are you sure?” She started to cry then and… Read more »

A Review of S.E.X.

When I attended the URGE National Conference in Washington, D.C. this June, one of the things in the goodie bag was the book S.E.X. by Heather Corinna. Naturally, I thought it was appropriate to review it for a blog post. On the cover, the book is described as “the all-you-need-to-know progressive sexuality guide to get you through high school and college.” This couldn’t be more accurate. The book is comprehensive, informative, and incredibly thorough, as well as an easy and quick read—I was able to breeze through it in a couple hours before I went through again and read it slowly to take notes. As with just about any get-to-know-your-body book, S.E.X. has a chapter about the body and how it changes during puberty. Corinna does an excellent job at… Read more »

Oy With the Victim Blaming Already!

Trigger warning: rape, victim-blaming, and pure ignorance Sometimes you get a harsh reminder that rape culture is alive and well. Far too often that reminder is on facebook. I considered refraining from saying anything about this because my head was spinning and I honestly couldn’t figure out how to put my thoughts, anger, and frustration into words. But it’s been several days now and I can form coherent sentences about this, and I want to share. I wish I had taken screenshots of the post I’m about to describe, but I was too shocked at the time and it goes without saying that I have since unfriended the person in question. The other day, I was mindlessly scrolling through Facebook, as I often do, when I saw that an acquaintance… Read more »