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Sexual Assault Awareness Month Provides Chance to Stand with Survivors

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April 1, 2016

****Trigger Warning: Sexual Assault****

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Today is the first day of April, which means it is the beginning of Sexual Assault Awareness month. Awareness about sexual assault, and most issues in our society, is crucial to the creating action. There is a lot about sexual assault that our society needs to made aware of, and there is no way I can capture it all in one blog post. But, I’ll try to do my best to discuss certain issues that I think really matter.

  1. We have to stop with the victim blaming

Sexual assault is NEVER a survivor’s fault. They weren’t too drunk or dressed too provocatively; they were taken advantage of and hurt. They were violated, and it is not their fault. If you look at a sexual assault survivor and ask them what they were wearing or if they wee drunk, you are ignoring the trauma they went through and their strength as a survivor.

  1. Sexual assault is a trigger

Be careful with the rhetoric you use when talking about issues related to sexual assault. You never know when someone in the room is a survivor and might be struggling. And a note to college students: 1 in 5 women on your campus are survivors, so be cognizant of that fact. Remember that statistic in your classes before you speak about this issue.

  1. You are not alone

If you are a survivor of sexual assault, there are people here for you. There is a network of survivors who will hear you and help you. There are people out there fighting for your safety and rights.

  1. Activism can change our culture

I have seen activists try to change the culture of sexual assault on college campuses, and I think it is some of the most powerful activism I have seen. Young activists mobilizing to protect themselves and their peers, and to change the way we talk about and handle sexual assault is inspiring.

This month, and all year, remember those who are affected by sexual assault and try and help them anyway you can. Volunteer with or donate to a shelter for survivors, get involved with events your campus is putting on (I know they’re happening), listen to and never blame a survivor. Use your voice, speak up, and bring light to this issue in a safe and respectful way. Change starts with a conversation.

Let Sexual Assault Awareness Month be the push you need to stand with sexual assault survivors and fight for an end to sexual assault.

 

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